If she is pregnant again, she will die. Why does her mother-in-law still say to her that "I will die with my eyes open without Seiko"! The story that makes the doctor forget: if the society

"Doctor Lin, I want to ask about having a baby." She sat down, looked at me with a pair of almond eyes, and said this. "Okay, do you want to have a baby?" Today I made an appointment to get a 80-year-old doctor. It was no longer like when I was a novice attending physician. When I was chatting slowly with each patient, I had to talk to the point with a single knife.

"Yes." She pointed. She has two very beautiful single eyelid eyes, pretty facial features, a squid face, and a straight black hair that is shoulder-length, which is simply tied behind her brain with a big trouser. During these two cold days, she was wearing a coffee coat and a black plaid scarf was folded and placed neatly on her legs.

"In fact, I often say that if I want to have a baby, I have to find a husband. I will never have a baby when I see the doctor many times." I joked and felt that she had a tangled relationship.

She smiled gently. "Come on, have you been pregnant? Have you ever had it?" Click on her electronic disease system and prepare to include basic medical history information.

"I was pregnant once, and I gave birth to one." She replied, "Carata."

"What is the cause of cesarean section?" I entered the data and continued to ask.

"There is a problem with the fetal plate, and the fetal position is also incorrect." She said, "I had a heavy bleeding that time."

She talked about the key words that would be alert to the alarm: fetal plate problem, heavy bleeding after childbirth. "Implantable tire disk (Note 1) or front tire disk (Note 2)?" I asked. "It seems to be all," she said. "I went to the nursing room that time and got a lot of blood." "If you get pregnant again, the chances of recurrence are very high!" I said straight. "The same is true for my doctor. He said he finally saved my palace and bleeded 2,000 c.c. I lost a lot of blood." She said calmly, but she felt that she had a terrifying memory. "If you get pregnant again, the risk will be higher than last time!" I raised the volume, "The possibility of uterine removal is very high!" "My doctor said that if I get pregnant again, I may not be able to save me." Her expression and temperament were still very calm. "And then you come and ask me today, are you going to have a baby?" I stared at her with wide eyes. The caregiver M's eyebrows also rose up and turned around to look at her. "My mother-in-law said..." She finally talked about the keywords. "Sure enough." I couldn't help rolling my eyes. "I...I'm remarried." She began to talk about the core question, "I gave birth to a daughter before, with a cleft lips." "Is the daughter corrected her knife?" I hugged her with both hands on her chest. "It's time to open the knife, no problem," she replied. "Then?" I motioned her to continue. "My husband didn't ask for anything, and he said he would be so tired if he had this daughter." She raised her head slightly and took a deep breath, "But my mother-in-law said that she wanted a son." She seemed to spit out a heavy stone. "Did she know that your previous baby almost died?" I asked directly. "I know." She replied, yes. "Then she wants you to have another life?" I continued to ask. "Yes." She replied, yes, yes. "It's very annoying!" I turned over and complained to the nurse M. They were very accustomed to me to diagnose unreasonable families at the door. "She asks me every day when I will give her another son." Her hands tightly grabbed the scarf on her knees, enduring her emotional excitement. "If you get pregnant again, you will probably die!" I said nothing. This is not my usual way of doing it. "My mother-in-law said that if this son had no son, she would die, not, be in peace, and have eyes." She looked at me with her beautiful almond eyes, saying word by word. "So what your mother-in-law meant is that even if you die, you will give her a son?" "Yes." She pointed. "I'm so angry, she'll die first." Sorry, this doctor is actually very bad. "So, doctor, I'm just asking you today, how can I get masturbating?" How did she endure it? I had to take a deep breath to endure my rationality and answered her professionally: "First, you are not old. If you really want to get pregnant, it will help you determine whether you ovulate or have sex with your husband, which may not be difficult to get pregnant. If you are really anxious, infertility techniques can also help you." I stopped myself from being so angry that I couldn't speak. "Second, there is a technical thing called sperm separation (Note 3), which can increase male baby's life However, "I continue to explain, "Artificial reproduction law explicitly prohibits the choice of fetal sexual intercourse."

According to the Ministry of Health and Welfare, the gender ratio of male and female babies who have been living with artificial reproductive technology is about one, two, five, and one hundred. Compared with the natural conditions, the gender ratio of male and female babies is 104 to one hundred. This is a very different digital gap. To say that no human action is done, it is probably only the government will believe it. It is also because Taiwan was once listed as a serious "gender imbalance" country with India, China and other countries. Later, the government actively investigated doctors of prostitutes and infertility departments, which made the gender of newborns in artificial reproductive technology more normal. But if we look at the number of papills, the proportion of male babies from Taiwan to the third child or above is much higher than the natural ratio. Is there still a favorable man and a light woman in Taiwan? Numbers tell everything.

She listened to me firmly, and it seemed that she really wanted to have a son.

"The doctor may be infertile or will be willing to help you with sperm surgery," I asked her, "But if your sperm surgery fails and your baby is damaged, what should I do?"

She looked at me and didn't answer.

"At that time, wouldn't this daughter who was born for a desperate attempt be a child that no one welcomes?" I said, and my heart was tugged, "If you don't die, it's fine. If you still die, why would your daughter be like this?"

Her eyes suddenly filled with water.

"Where is your daughter? What is she feeling?" I know these are not what a female doctor needs to say to her. "My grandma doesn't love her, and then mom died to give birth to a younger brother." I took a deep breath, "Are you worthy of her like this?" I said a repeated word.

Her eyes slid down from her eyes.

I know she is actually helpless. Every day, she is like being caught by a ghost or stared at, urging her to "have a son to me, otherwise I will die with my eyes open." It is difficult for a daughter-in-law to face this situation. She is a woman who "remarries" the daughter of her previous husband. In the traditional marriage market, she is simply "grateful for her husband's shelter". How can she bear it?

Taiwanese people often use "官", "shu", "super" and "soft" to help their daughters. They expect them to "behave well and listen", "not to fight without asking", and be more comfortable with the meaning of "being obedient and honest", and they are not afraid to fight for the value that they and their children should be loved. If we did not establish the persistence and confidence that girls should have in life from a young age, it would be useless to talk about gender equality in the system.

"What do you think of your husband?" I asked. "He told me to ignore my mother-in-law, just ignore her." She replied with a scrubbing edge. "Men don't understand the pressure you have to face your mother-in-law every day." The nurse M said next to her. "He is actually very good to me, but..." Her eyes were still falling, but the map was fixed. He is a woman who will be stubborn if you suffer. "I just didn't understand your pressure, nor did I communicate well with his mother." I added. She was silently flowing. "Doctor Lin, can you help me?" she asked. "What will you help?" I asked. "I have to have a son." Her voice was delicate and weak, and her beautiful almond eyes and nose were red from crying. "Even if you are likely to have a heavy bleeding again? You may even die when you enter the nursing room?" I asked mercilessly. If she wants children very much, and knows the risks and wants to "revolve their dreams", I can still discuss them slowly with her, and even the medical team is willing to try her for her. But now, she is inexplicably authorized to evaluate her value and prejudice in her life in traditional Confucian society. And among them, there may be an innocent victim, her daughter.

She couldn't speak and let her eyes flow to her mouth. I believe she was not the first day she tasted the bitterness. I sucked my breath and gritted my teeth and said, "Take your mother-in-law, your husband, and your daughter to me for a diagnosis." If this moment is painted into a comic, I should have veins burst out with smoke on my head. "If they answered me in front of you, you will die and you will have another son. I know, I will introduce you to the doctor in the infertility department."

She did not answer. Life is too difficult, and society sets her down to fail. "Think about your daughter. You should protect her and love her, rather than letting a selfish old woman force you to let her be alone." I said a very oversighted remark.

She was silent for a while.

"Thank you, doctor." She wiped her eyes, stood up elegantly, pointed at me, and left the clinic. I really wanted to reach out to calm her, but no matter how long my hand was, I couldn't reach out to protect her. Maybe in the end, she would still find a doctor who would "help" her "to achieve her wish."

Note 1 fetal plate is composed of embryonic hairpins, which are rich in blood vessels and attached to the inner wall of the uterus, for blood accumulation, oxygen and waste transfer between the mother and the fetus for exchange. Under normal circumstances, after the fetus is delivered, the fetal plate will automatically detach from the inner membrane of the uterus. However, if the membrane-layer cells are deficient, the hair may be implanted into the uterus muscle layer, or even penetrate the uterus muscle layer to the bladder or the uterus tissue, called "implantable fetal plate" or "penetrating fetal plate". After delivery, it will cause a lot of bleeding due to inability to detach the fetal plate.

Note If the position of the second fetal plate is at the upper end of the cerebral vein, it will affect the delivery of the fetus and will separate from the endometrium of the cerebral area early and cause bleeding.

Note 3 The specific gravity of the Y-stained chromatids and X-stained chromatids is different, and the semen is filtered artificially before injecting into the vaginal cavity. This method cannot guarantee fetal gender 100% and according to artificial reproductive methods, embryonic gender 100% may not be selected.

Book introduction

Book name: Woman in the clinic 2: No longer afraid of losing, the female doctor of the prostitute accompanied you to find the forgotten self

Author: Lin Jingye

Publisher: Slide Literature

Publishing Date: 2021/01/08

Author Introduction/Lin Jingye

My prostitute, former political worker. Feminist. I am practicing reading methods after presbyopia and experiencing the hot and tides of menopause. Love the rain in the South Pacific and the cold air in North India. Having an irritable body can lead to the ability to leave many things without leaving them. The most difficult thing in life is to keep your waist.