Life, separation, death, and death are not only a major subject in life. Long Qianyu faced the love and passed away in two years, and still can't forget the moment when his father passed away. The sudden death of her daughter left her with a hea...
Life, separation, death, and death are not only a major subject in life. Long Qianyu faced the love and passed away in two years, and still can't forget the moment when his father passed away. The sudden death of her daughter left her with a heart-wrenching self-responsibility. She said, "We have many ways to choose from, we can choose to be sad, we can choose to reconcile, and we can completely decide our own mind." I remember the past, although I can't stop the purgation, Buddhism has given her full strength and I firmly believe that all arrangements are the best arrangements.
Long Qianyu (real name Jiang Yuwen) has been singing for 43 years. Jiang Jincheng, the father of Keelung, is the behind-the-scenes champion. Because she knew she loved singing, one day, Feng Fei happened to go to Huye to pay homage. Jiang's father asked to turn the line and open Long Qianyu's acting road. After becoming famous in the Taiwanese songs, she bought her mother and sister in Taipei to live with her father. Her father, who served as the crew, stayed in Keelung. Later, her father was diagnosed with stage 1 oral cancer due to denture friction. The general staff of the whole family looked for and tried various treatment methods. The doctor confirmed that he was discharged from the hospital after he was diagnosed with no accident.
{9 , after about half a year of diagnosis, the cancer cells were dissipated. Jiang's father was hospitalized for emergency treatment. Long Qianyu revealed: "My father felt that year and said there would be a big disaster that may not be over." Jiang's father passed away in May 2010 due to infection and organ failure. Looking back at the moment of first aid, Long Qianyu sobbed and said : "My father kept looking at me, as if he was saying that he couldn't save him or her? I saw that he couldn't leave us, and slowly his eyes closed and left."Long Qianyu said that although he was mentally prepared for his father's departure, the pain was still huge. Unexpectedly, two years later, she faced death again. She suddenly received her daughter Cao Chunjun and died suddenly the night before her 51st birthday. The sudden bad news made her deeply beaten. She sat on the ground with soft legs. She choked and said, "I regretted it very much that day, and I regretted why I had to go to bed, or maybe my daughter was bored because I went to bed and wanted to say that she would go back to Banqiao."
time was 8 months old. The mother and daughter had just got together and arranged the next day's birthday plan. Long Qianyu went back to her room to rest because she had a performance in the evening. Her daughter returned to the rental house in Banqiao. "Before I took the stage, I received a call from her boyfriend and said that there was an accident, but the performance could not be cancelled. I asked my colleagues to understand the situation. After the performance, I received a call and said that my daughter was sent to the hospital and was no longer angry." She recovered her heartbreak in pain and cried.
The death of her daughter caught her off guard, and she did not mention her identity as a mother, and she was deliberately confused by the outside world. After two or three blows, she was afraid and hid at home, and had not left her household for 8 months, and even considered quitting the song. Seeing her in a daze, my son stayed with her in Canada for more than a month, hoping that she would not suffer any pain as soon as possible.
For my mother, I tried hard to cheer up and went back to Taiwan again, Long Qianyu saw her mother sitting in the living room one day, "The faint light shone on my mother's white hair, and I found that my mother was so haggard and thin. I asked, "Why don't my mother go to sleep?" My mother replied, "How can I sleep like this?"." At that moment, she was ashamed. She reflected on herself as her daughter, letting her mother suffer with herself, and finally cheered up and plucked up her courage to take on the performance.
The fans cheered her on the stage and she felt moved. She found that she still liked singing. The mother told her, "Then you have to continue singing. The matter has gone through. You can't blame yourself all the time. If you can find happiness in singing, then you can sing well."
Reconcile with yourself The encouragement of the fans of the little love into the big lovehas worked hard to make love
and the company of the family. Long Qianyu also felt deeply moved by the Buddha. She emphasized that it was a heartbreaking to leave the world, but she could never do it. "Little life is a bad behavior. Little life cannot solve the problem. It is not a whole lot, but it is nothing."
She was grateful for her success step by step. She said that because every sharing is to release pressure, and she can even help people with the same experience. "It is also a way to let go of me when I come to talk. I don't think I can't It is too difficult for you to be, and you must reconcile with yourself."
After walking through the grief, Long Qianyu used the new song "The Platform for Life" to describe the deep and pure relationship between people. Therefore, it is more important to live hard for the people around you to try to do intentional things, and naturally it will gradually move away from the haze. "Like the year my daughter left, I thought I had 10 children and regarded them as their own children. They would send photos to me to see, and it was so satisfying to see it."
Cherish the life and death of the people around hertwice. Long Qianyu realized that life is unpredictable and dared not say that she really let go. Whenever she thinks of her father and daughter still have a lot of face, she admitted that it is really difficult to reconcile, but her life is limited, and she shouted affectionately to those who have the same experience: "Learn to find a new goal, and slowly Turning around, live well, cherish the people and things around her."
After her father Jiang Jincheng passed away, she remembered that when she was a child, her family was not well off, and she left society very early to separate the family plan, and rarely stayed by her father. Now she lives with her mother for life, so she spends time with her mother to travel around and enjoy the waters, and actually cherish the people and things around her. After she became Buddha, her heart became more peaceful, and her grief was comforted by the Buddha's teachings. She said, "The more you look, the less you look, the more calm you feel, which means that the deceased went to a good place.. ”
Long Qianyu often feels that she has a very thin relationship with her daughter. She is pleased that she can still be with her mother now. She especially mentioned that although many people are filial to their parents, they should be less patient and must think: "One day I will get older, and my mother is like my future, so I should be more tolerant and cherish the shorter and shorter time of time."
