When Liang Chaowei was 7 years old, his father left his home and never came back! First talk about childhood inferiority complex: only doing what one person can do, no longer rely on others to find ha

61-year-old actor Liang Chaowei has been in the industry for 41 years and has played countless classic roles. South Korean newcomer girl group New Jeans released her new song "Cool With You ' & 'Get Up" late yesterday (19th) Taiwan time, and Hong Kong superstar Liang Chaowei appeared on the stage with white hair on his top, which surprised the fans.

A few days ago, when Liang Chaowei was interviewed by a magazine about the US "GQ", he rarely mentioned his relationship with his father. Wei Zai admitted that when he was 7 years old, his father, who served as the nightclub manager, ran away from home more than once. When he abandoned the whole family for the third time, he never came back. He became a single family overnight and felt very inferior, more introverted, and resisted communication with others.

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"After my father left, I really don't know how to get along with others. My classmates around me were talking about how happy their father and family life were. I just started that time. I didn't want to take the initiative to interact with others, and I became very stressed."

Liang Chaowei said that he grew up in a broken family. "When I was about 4 years old, I heard my father quarrel every night, and I cried every night." Just like the male protagonist "Shangqian" in "Shangqian and the Ten Legends", the lack of fatherly love has become an eternal pain in his heart.

When he was invited by Marvel, Liang Chaowei admitted that he had no intention of performing, but was eventually moved by the play. "In other words, this is a villain, I even think he is a failed father, and he is a person who loves his family deeply, so I don't know how to love himself."

Self-closed to 20 years old, and found the exit when he started acting.

Along the way, Liang Chaowei, who did not want to take on the role of his father, said: "I don't want to recall the process of leaving my father that year, because in that conservative Hong Kong society, there were not many single broken families like me."

"Happy and cry in front of others, letting go of all emotions without being shy is a way to express oneself."

Do only one thing that someone can do: don't want to rely on others to find happiness

However, the father who left home at a young age has had a profound impact on his growth. Liang Chaowei used to go abroad, ride on his own for several hours, and then go to an izakaya to have a meal. His favorite sports are also mainly about skiing and surfing, which are the sports that people can do.

"These bad childhood experiences have allowed me to learn to do what I really like and not rely on the happiness that can only be felt with others."

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