The elderly are very slow to get acquainted... Will high-age people only cause trouble in society? How does silver hair tribes get rid of "old-age phobia"

"I'm just old, why do I always worry about whether I'm being treated as "old-age harm"?" The uneven atmosphere of modern society for older people is causing more and more middle-aged and senior-aged people to develop "old-age harm fear" and even excessively retreat at work to suppress themselves. Japanese psychiatrist Hidesuke Wada pointed out that in fact, there are very few behaviors that truly constitute old-fashioned harm, and most people don’t have to over-examination.

Too much cater to young people is actually easier to cause things to be stuck

Many mature workers are worried that their words and actions are unpleasant, so they become too cater to young people, and even speak carefully to avoid taking opinions. But Dr. Hotan reminds that this kind of attitude will not only harm one's own value, but also easily hinder the smooth progress of work.

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He suggested that it would be better to adjust his mind to: "Even if he is said, as long as he does his job well and has a sense of responsibility, it will be fine." After all, the original meaning of "Elderly Harm" refers to elderly people who are rigid in their thoughts and still have no power. Not all seniors should bear this label.

The annuity people spend money and the elderly hold accounts in supermarkets very slowly; the invisible pressure of society is suffocating

Nowadays, the impatient and criticism of the elderly are becoming increasingly popular, and some young people even publicly say: "The pension life is still so luxurious", "The pension is still delayed when you are old, it's really a mess". Although not necessarily every sentence is said, this kind of air often makes older people feel pressured.

Because of this "labeling atmosphere", many mature people are deeply afraid of "an accident will turn into an old harm in other people's mouths", and they become afraid to express themselves and reduce their work, losing the opportunity that they could have made good use of.

Not humble and not arrogant, living happily is the key to truly breaking prejudice

Dr. Hotan advocates: "The key to breaking the so-called "wall of old harm" is to live out your own rhythm and happiness." When society's lack of tolerance for seniors becomes common, only when the elderly themselves show confidence and actions can they slowly turn their impressions.

He also emphasized that being silly does not mean being humble, and respecting young people does not mean being suppressed. Even if you postpone your retirement or re-employment, you should not be considered "occupied". As long as you don’t have the right to take advantage of your duties and hold on to your timely awareness, it’s not a bad thing.

Don't let the elderly fear of being respectful and free.

Finally, Dr. Hotan reminded: He does not want to raise the flag of "speaking for the elderly", but hopes that the elderly will not lower their value just because they are worried about being criticized.

If we allow the "anything can be called a traitor" to spread, the ultimate victimization will be the entire mature community. Life, health, fun, and freedom, these things that originally belong to everyone will eventually be slowly driven away by invisible pressure.